Direct Demonstration of Higher Value:
During an interaction with a girl you may come across an opportunity to let them know something about yourself. However this is definitely not about bragging. Going up to a girl and coming out with, “I have met Brad Pitt and we talked and it was really cool.” is not a great thing to do. Yeah it shows high value and it might work but there is a good chance they will just think you are just showing off to impress them.Instead try to drop in stuff that fits into the conversation that sounds sincere. If you are talking about places you have been on holiday, mentioning you went and climbed a mountain in Snowdonia would be very cool indeed in a girls eyes.
Using stories to demonstrate higher value is a great way to get across that you are a very cool, fun, awesome guy to be around. You can show that you are a leader, decision maker, have plenty of options, etc with ease whilst telling stories. I will have to write an article on it in the near future to explain how this can be done as it really deserves an article all to itself.
The one problem with this method is that you can go overboard. Don’t keep trying to impress with stories because that can make you seem try hard or arrogant. You generally only need to demonstrate higher value a couple of times in an interaction.
Indirect Demonstration of Higher Value:
This is all about demonstrating higher value without actually having to say a word. I think this is much more powerful method of showing value because the girl sees it for herself instead of having to be told. This includes the example of having a Ferrari. However you don’t need a nice car to show high value to women.
Things like going out with your friends and having a great time shows you are of high value because these people want to be around you. If they want to be around you then so will a girl. Also going out and approaching women shows you have high value. Approaching women on a night out shows many qualities. It shows you have confidence because you approached. It shows you are a decision makes cause you chose to approach and also that you have options because you can choose who to approach.
There are many others ways to show this type of value. I personally have used magic to demonstrate higher value which has always worked well. This works because it demonstrates skills that you posses. You need to be careful when ever you are demonstrating skills not to act like a dancing monkey. If you perform a skill, make sure you do it once or maybe twice and that’s it.
The good thing about this type of value is like I said the women see it first hand. Nothing more powerful than that. Also though, because it is natural you can just let it flow. You won’t come across as arrogant if you go overboard because you aren’t reeling it off. Talking about something is never as strong as seeing it in person.
So there you have it, now you know why we need to demonstrate value and also how to demonstrate value
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