Top 10 tips on how to flirt with girls in smart ways

 

Flirting's a language - and just like with any other language, no one's born a fluent flirt. If you want to know how to flirt like a pro, you've got to learn the signs. Follow these flirt tips and practice till you're an expert flirt.

1. Choose Your Targets

You don't have to have a crush on someone in order to flirt. Practice flirting with random people you see every day - people who might not even be on your dating radar - on order to hone your skills. That way, you'll have some flirting experience under your belt when you approach the people who really matter.

2. Have an Opening Line

Find a reason to talk to the person. If you're in a class with them, come up with a question about an assignment. If they're standing in line behind you at a concert, ask about the band. Get creative, and be ready to respond to whatever they say.

3. Make Eye Contact

If you don't make eye contact, you'll look bored or uninterested, and that's not an impression you want to give. Too shy to look them right in the eyes? Here's a trick: look at the spot right between their eyes. It'll look like eye contact to them.

4. Come Up With a Compliment

Pick one thing you like about the way they look - like their hair, their smile or an article of clothing. Let them know in a friendly way how much you like it. It'll make them feel good and will open them up to you. (If you can't think of an opening line for tip #2, a compliment will do.)

5. Smile

You don't have to go all Bozo the Clown, but the idea is to look like you enjoy talking to them. So be sure to throw them a smile whenever it makes sense. If they shoot one back, you'll know that they like talking to you, too.

6. Flirt With Your Body

The body language you use when you flirt is just as important as what you say. Use good posture, point your body towards the person and try to find excuses to touch them.

7. Keep It Light

You'll get a way better response if you chat about fun, happy stuff (like your new puppy) than serious or sad stuff (like when your puppy got hit by a train). The point of flirting isn't to bare your soul or share your honest opinions about everything. It's to open the door to lots more conversations down the road.

8. Beware of Awkward Silences

Once the convo drags, it's probably gone for good. Fill an awkward silence by asking the other person a question. Can't think of one? Ask them about something they're wearing or something in your environment (like a painting on the wall, or the music that's playing).

9. Wrap It Up

If you're not interested in talking anymore, politely find an excuse to head off into the sunset. If you are interested, give them a way to get in touch with you - like your phone number or Facebook name. This is (hopefully) just your first convo of many, so save some of that charm for the next time.

10. Practice, Practice, Practice

No one's perfect at flirting the first time around. If the idea of flirting still gives you butterflies, don't worry - it just means that you need more practice. The more you flirt, the easier it'll get.

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Smart flirting tips for smart guys

It's well known that girls love to flirt. And if you know how to flirt back, you're definitely off to a good start.

So how do you flirt appropriately with girls? First it's important to know how to recognize their flirting, which, maddening as it can be, is often subtle. You certainly don't want to stare at a girl and try to figure out what signs she's sending, but it is important to keep your eyes open. Here are ten female courtship signs to watch for:

 

1. She looks down when you see her--definitely showing interest

2. She's twirling her hair around--definitely into you

3. Licks her lips--unless you can tell she's screwing with you, this is a very good sign!

4. Open legs

5. Sidways glance

6. Fondling a cylindrical object (cigarette, glass, etc.)--VERY good sign!

7. Fondling her shoe (shoe is slight off her foot, twisting her foot in circles)

8. The "leg twine"--one leg pressed hard against the other to give the appearance of high muscle tone--very good sign

9. The head toss--If she tosses her hair back over her shoulders, this is definitely a good gesture.

10. Exposed wrists--If she's interested in you, she will gradually display the smooth, soft skin of her wrists to a guy she's interested in. Wrists are actually considered one of the more erotic areas of the body--so if she's showing you this sexual area--go for it!

Then there are the more obvious signs that she's interested: she smiles a lot, her body is open, and she touches you. If she leans away from you, she's losing interest. Leaning towards you, and she's definitely interested in you. If these things happen, you're doing great!

Now that you know how to recognize a girl's flirtatious body language, it's good to know how to communicate your interest in subtle but clear ways as well. Here are some good gestures:

1. Smoke up.
If you're a smoker, you can use it to your advantage. Lift your face up with a cool look in your eyes, and blow the smoke up. This suggests confidence, superiority, and positivity. Smoking down, on the other hand, conveys you are negative, secretive, and suggestive.

2. An intimate gaze.
Look at the female with confidence and hold the gaze for a good 3 seconds or so, before turning away with a smirk.

3. Hands on hips.
This goes to show your physical size and readiness for the female.

4. Touch her on the knee.
If things are going well, a little physical touch is a great way of showing interest, and showing confidence. Touch her on the knee lightly, hold her shoulders, or brush by her gently as you go to the bathroom or bar. Definitely good ways of making her blood hotter!

5. Tease her.
Yeah, tease her. This shows that you're confident enough to bust her balls--and get away with it--and that you're interested. It's kind of like when you were a kid and would harass the girls in school you were interested in. But this is done more subtly, and with higher rewards at stake.

The best, however, is the ol' "thumbs in belt" gesture. This highlights the genital area and showcases one's pride in that area. Definitely a positive step, if done confidently and convincingly.

Now that you know what to look out for and how to display your interest, you're on your way towards attracting and noticing girls. Good luck!

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Successful flirting tips with pretty girls

Be yourself. Do not attempt extreme images such as macho, super-smooth, cool dude, comedian, or a pick-up artist. Even if it does impress her momentarily, the truth will surface eventually, and you will likely lose her trust and her interest. It is much better to be honest from the beginning.

2. Start a conversation with her. Most girls want guys to make the first move, so speak with confidence and flow, demonstrating that you are secure with yourself. You can pretend the confidence at first, and it will come more naturally when she responds to you.

3. Listen more than you talk. This doesn't mean sit there like a dud, but ask a question, wait until she is completely done talking, then make a comment that shows you were listening. Avoid interrupting her, because no one appreciates this, and doing so will kill your chances at making a good impression. Also, don't argue unless the issue is very important to you.

4. Be bold, but also courteous. If you can't think of anything else to say, look her in the eyes and compliment her. Don't be afraid to speak up, or you will never get anywhere!
If she has a scarf on that you think is nice, tell her, and touch her scarf for a few seconds, and ask when and where she got it. Don't forget to tell her it suits her. Use an undertone—girls love it when you lean towards them and murmur a compliment. Be careful with compliments on clothes: don't use too many or she may perceive you as a homosexual.
Don't overwhelm her with compliments. You should focus on going from "nice acquaintance" to "intimate friend/potential lover" smoothly. Intimate friends joke around, tease each other gently, touch each other. Start with touching her on the arm when you're laughing (don't watch the hand). See if she touches you.

5.Find out her interests and the music she likes. Then, talk to her about them. If you can't think of anything to talk about, use a conversation starter like "How has your day been?" or "Don't you love this time of year?". These most usually work only if you are already friends with her, and you see her on a daily basis. If you do see her on a daily basis and she mentions, for example, a vacation she is going on soon, inquire where she is going, and branch off from there; when she gets back, ask her how it was. Don't be extremely serious in your inquiry; just ask it casually.

6.Be funny. Most girls agree that a good sense of humor is attractive. Humor can also relieve awkwardness. If you say something weird, follow it up with something funny and turn it into a joke. Alternatively, just learn to be witty. Almost all girls like intelligence as well as confidence, and blending those with humor can be a very effective combination.

Teasing a girl can be a good way to make her laugh and keep things interesting. Just don't joke about something that may be a sensitive issue, such as her weight. If she strongly cares about saving the trees, for example, and you rip up paper in an attempt to get laughs, she'll just end up hating your guts.
Find something that you both think is hilarious. Turn it into an inside joke, so when you want to talk to her, you have something to say no matter what, and she thinks that something is funny. However, don't use it too much, or it loses its humor and her opinion of your humor is lowered.
7Don't be too eager to start conversing with her at every possible opportunity. When she walks into the room, you do not have to jump up and say "Hi!!" immediately, but if she sits next to you and initiates conversation, go for it!
Girls will be touched if you make the first move. Stare at her for maybe 2 seconds and, when she looks at you, look embarrassed. She'll probably laugh and remember you--for a good reason!

8.Don't be fake--it turns a girl off. If you are trying to be more macho then you are or smarter or more confident then you really are, you look desperate and that seriously upset her.

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Top 10 ideas to keep any girl in controlle of you

if a woman says NO to a man's invitation to have a cup of coffee together, he should not give up and all the same keep on making acquaintances with women.

It is important for men to foresee refusals from women and try to evade them. Here are the ten popular reasons that make women turn down men's invitations and nullify their attempts to get acquainted.

1. Selfishness and hatred of men. The modern big city society, both men and women, are awfully anxious about their own lives only and do not care about other people's feelings. They believe their sexual attractiveness must be sold at the highest price. Women of the type love to humiliate men and make them feel ill at ease.

2. Man's looks betray he is short of cash. Women pay particular attention to men's financial status. So, those males who look like having not enough money stand a poor chance of getting YES to their invitation for a cup of coffee. Men should better seek acquaintance with women who look as well-to-do as they are.

3. She is not alone. A woman may turn down other men's invitations in case she already has a partner and wants no more acquaintances.

4. She is a sophisticated coquette. A great number of women with low self-appraisal and also married women belong to the category as it is important for them to know they are sexually attractive and to get confirmations of it. They may behave as if they would not mind to get acquainted with new men but in fact they do not at all plan to date them. These women just need to flatter their pride and feel their superiority.

5. She has some emotional problems (may be she is a hysterical girl?). This is a category of women who once dealt with mean men and who are absolutely sure that males are the cause of all troubles in the world. Such a woman will turn down your invitation just because you are a male and for no other reason. Read more articles about misunderstanding between men and women here

6. Man's first step in getting acquainted was wrong. Some women like strangers clap them on the back and say 'Hi, babe' while others treat the manner as brazen impudence and will try not to deal with you even if finds you attractive. So, men should mind woman's social status and education to choose a proper approach for getting acquainted with her. An approach suitable for a market seller will not work with a doctor or a teacher.

7. A bad moment for acquaintances. A woman may turn down man's invitations owing to circumstances beyond the man's control. Probably she has some serious problems at home or in the office, or she feels bad and realizes that she looks not very nice on this particular day. But for the troubles she would have probably said YES to your invitation.

8. She is probably still suffering from breaking up with her previous partner. If a woman invited for a date says she wants no dates and needs some time to look into herself it means she is still suffering as has recently broken up with her partner. She wants no new romances. In this case, first try to become friends with her and probably later the relations will become more romantic.

9. You are too diffident. Women will never agree to date men who look absolutely diffident and dumb when making attempts to get acquainted. The best thing a diffident man can expect in this situation is winning the status of a friend. Men must be confident but never rude or familiar when striking up acquaintances with women.

10. A woman just does not like you, that's all. And nothing can be done in this case. Tastes differ. Men should remember that the success of their attempts to get acquainted with women depends upon them in some case. This is first of all their own behavior. Do not give up if a woman says NO. You may be more successful when grow more experienced. Like This

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Groom Your Personality to Achieve the Target Easier

However much you protest, it cannot be denied that people instantly judge you based on how you look.

You could be a successful professional raking in the moolah and having 

recently acquired a swanky car, but if you are dressed shabbily with food stains on your clothes and with two days' growth of stubble on your face, then you will be judged accordingly. We're here to make sure that never happens to you! Read on and get a grip on how to make a great first impression.

Sticking to basics

A healthy body does it for you. If you take care of your body, it's half the job already done when it comes to making a good impression. Eat regular and balanced meals and get your share of physical exercise. Smoke and drink only occasionally if at all, hard... we know!! Cultivating habits like this will go a long way in making you a person with a significant presence and who is sure to make a lasting first impression.

Pamper your skin

To ensure that your skin is glowing and that you look fresh, do what the doctor ordered. Make sure you drink at least two liters of water a day. If possible drin at least a beer glass full of water in the morning. It takes a getting used to but does wonders for your complexion. Get enough sleep so that you don't have puffy eyes, and also moisturize regularly to keep your skin nourished (Try L'oreal Hydra). Before stepping out, always check your face to make sure you don't have any smudges of dirt on it, or any stray hair growing or crust in your eyes. This just takes you a few seconds and it will surely add to your look.

Close shave

Shave regularly to look your best. If you sport a beard or a moustache or a French beard, then make sure it is trimmed neatly and has no stray hairs sticking out in multiple directions. Also make sure that you shave in the same direction as the growth of the hair, and that you soften your facial hair before shaving it. This will ensure that there aren't ingrowths and also reduce the possibilities of getting nicked while shaving.

Tips for lips

Chapped lips will never get you anywhere with that girl you like, so use lip balm regularly to keep them moisturized and smooth. Don't put too much on or it might end up looking like you're wearing lip gloss. If it embarrasses you to use it, only apply it when you're in the washroom.

Get in the shower

The basic step to staying clean and smelling good even without any cologne. This is a step you are not allowed to miss because it's as simple as water, shower and towel. So whether you've just come back from the gym, woken up, or are going for a party - shower!

Keep your hands clean

Women notice nice hands and hands play a make-or-break role in business meetings because of the importance of a handshake. Cut and file your nails regularly and also make sure that they don't have any residue of food or dirt stuck in them. Keep a nail clipper, file and other items you might need in the shower so that you can save time needed to do this. Wash your hands frequently and especially after a meal because smelly and sweaty hands are the biggest turn off. Also use a bit of hand lotion on them to prevent your hands resembling tough hide.

Don't be shaggy

Since hair grows regularly, you have to always keep a check on when your ear, nose, chest hair needs a trim. It's best to trim hair from these parts at least once a week. Also shampoo and condition your hair every day. Of course if you have long hair, maybe alternate days would be fine, but never let your hair look greasy and straggly.

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